Ex-wife of her husband - a family friend or a rival - we build the right relationship with the former wife of her husband

By Admin | Relations
19 March 2016

marriage with a man, behind which already have one (if not more) marriage - it is always the presence of certain difficulties.And they become even greater if the former marriage he has children.Either way, communicating with his ex-wife can not escape.How to build a relationship with her?It threatens to whether your marriage his ex-wife?And what if the husband (if desired or necessary) to communicate with her often? content of the article:

  • ex-wife for her husband - who is she?
  • husband works with his ex-wife, rings, she helps her
  • We build the right relationship with the ex-wife of her husband

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ex-wife for her husband - who is she?

Before you understand - what to do with his former half should understand the main thing: the ex-wife - a common friends, business, spiritual connection and common children.It is necessary to recognize and accept as fact.Development of relations with the former wife of a man is usually one of several scenarios:

  • former wife - just one .Emotional attachment i
    s left, the husband entirely covered only by you and is free from the past.But divorce is for him - not a reason to spoil relations with a woman with whom he lived.Therefore, it remains part of his life.At the same time it is not your life in danger, even if they have children - of course, only if his ex-wife, she does not harbor feelings for your spouse have.
  • former wife as a hidden enemy .It is stuffed into your friend, it is often in your party and more often intersects with your husband - in most cases, in your absence.Her feelings have not changed for her husband, and she was waiting for a chance to get it back - gently and quietly setting up ex-husband against you by interfering in your affairs, demanding regular meetings with ex-husband on the pretext that "the children are bored."

Ex-wife

  • husband emotionally attached to the former spouse .In this case, erase an opponent of your family life will turn out.Husband immediately (actions or words) will put you face the fact that his ex-wife you have to take it for granted.To distinguish this type of attachment is simple - a husband deals with his ex-wife in the language they understand zapanibratskom even in your presence, gifts from her always in a prominent place, the overall picture is not removed in the closet, and are in the album on the shelf.
  • former wife - possessive .She is constantly looking for meetings with her husband, you can not stand, it is trying to ruin your life, even though her husband is not going to return.The husband in this case only loves you very much and suffers from having to see his ex-wife - but children usually do not get divorced, so he has no choice but how to endure the whims of his ex-wife.

husband speaks, works with his ex-wife, calling helping her - is it ok?

Thoughts "should" women tend to be similar: the rate you - it is his association with the former?When it's time to guard and take action?How better to do - to be friends with the competitor, to be neutral or even to declare war?Last sure there is no - it is completely useless.But the course of action will depend on the actions of the wife and myself, his ex. alert and take action should be if his ex ...

  • Too often appears in your home.
  • constantly calls his wife "just talk."
  • antagonize your husband and children (as well as friends in common with her former husband and other relatives.).
  • is, in fact, a third party in your new family life.Yes, and he tries to take an active part in it.
  • lion's share of your family budget is spent on her and their children together.

Ex-wife And also if your husband ...

  • Spends a lot of time with the former.
  • upsets you, when you put the question squarely.
  • Allows former rude rude to you and himself in her presence.
  • works together with his ex-wife and is often delayed after work.

If you feel uncomfortable or feel a lot of pressure on the part of themselves or a spouse, it's time to build a competent strategy.The main thing - do not make mistakes.What you need to remember - we'll show you ...

Building the right relationship with the former wife of her husband - how to neutralize an opponent?

course, in favor of the former wife of your husband's plenty of circumstances - they have children together, they love each other, they know each other very well (in all senses, including private life), their understanding - at a glance and poluvzglyada.But this is not to say that his ex-wife to become your enemy.It can become an ally, if the divorce was a mutual decision.Regardless of her behavior, we must remember main rules of communication with the ex-wife of her husband :

  • not forbid husband to communicate with his ex-wife, and even more so with their children .If the spouse feels that the ex-wife is trying to manipulate him, he will draw conclusions and will decide - how and where to meet with children, to reduce the degree of stress.Prohibition of communication will always protest.And the second reason why the scheme "or I, or your ex!" Is meaningless - that trust between you and your husband.If you trust him, there is no reason to be jealous and hysterical - in the end, he chose you.And if you do not trust - it means you need to radically rethink your relationship with her husband, because without trust any relationship sooner or later come to an end.
  • Try to build a friendly relationship with the children of her husband .Earn their trust.If you can arrange them to him, half of your problem will be solved.
  • never condemned when the wife of his ex-wife .This topic is for you - a taboo.He has the right to talk about it, he wants, you also do not have such a right.

Ex-wife of her husband

  • with friends, family and neighbors never discusses his ex-wife .Even if the neighbor tells you that your husband is a former sweet evenings drinking coffee around the corner, and mother-in-every evening tells a plague was her former daughter - remain neutral.The scheme - "smile and wave."Until such time as you do not personally convinced that his former spoils your life, secretly meets with your husband and so on. - Do not do anything and do not let myself even thinking in that direction.And deliberately look for such reasons as not worth it.Love in peace, live and enjoy, and all superfluous itself eventually "fall off" (or its former or himself).
  • His ex-wife provokes you? rings, trying to "bite" a painful, demonstrates its superiority offends?Your task - to be above these "pricks and stings."Ignore all the "insinuation."Her husband, too, to talk about it is not necessary.Unless, of course, there are no serious threats to the health of the "ex" part.
  • His ex-girlfriend begs to? rare case when one man, two women become friends.Rather, it is dictated by a desire to certain interests.But others keep close (so to speak), and the enemy - even closer.Let her think that you - her friend.And you keep tabs on the top and stay alert.

Ex-wife of her husband

  • In most cases, ex-wives openly anyway - who live with their ex-husbands.Therefore, immediately rush into battle not worth it.Of course, there are certain disadvantages, but they can live quite comfortably - with time and rest will fall into place.Another thing, if his former - a real Pandora's box.There is already a need to act in the circumstances, including full capacity their wisdom.
  • His ex is threatening you? So, it's time to talk with her husband.Just please be evidence, otherwise you just set up the husband against himself.Now it is not a problem - camera, voice recorder, etc..

And remember the main thing: your husband's ex-wife - this is not your competitor.You do not have to compete with someone who has long been a closed book for your spouse.It is not necessary to prove to her husband and his ex-wife, that you - better than her.When her husband left her feeling - you can not change that.If he wants to live with you all my life - it will not interfere with any ex-wife nor their common children.Be happy, in spite of everything.