Many women often ask such questions - « How to talk to the opposite sex, so that they understand you correctly ?», Or «How can you teach a man of candor?" And "How to learn to find a mancommon language?".
It is worth noting that these issues are always worried about the fairer half of humanity, because very often, and from a misunderstanding of his own powerlessness simply give up.
let you try to learn a few simple rules of dialogue, through which you will eventually learn not only an understanding of your partner, but to learn from them quickly and properly communicate.
First of all you need to learn to share their experiences.You must agree that man is much easier to be with you to find common ground, if he understands the purpose of the upcoming conversation, but the banal phrase - «let's talk» can sometimes just to irritate him.
those frequent occasions when the wall of alienation arises between people close recently because of the fact that it becomes uninteresting together.Try to start sm
tell your loved one that you are surprised, worried or just amused.And remember that you need to learn to listen to your partner.Maybe your partner is not able to solve all the existing problems you have, nevertheless, you are perfectly able to feel significant support just because you listened carefully.
And do not forget about the manifestation of affection to your loved one at night - kiss, hug and say goodnight.After all, even the most ordinary physical contact will make both of you feel you have a general binding affinity, forget about fears and, eventually, lift your mood.
To have your partner listen and even could try to understand while talking to talk about the main thing, omitting minor details and nothing insignificant man or you may simply lose any interest in the conversation.
Remember that you should not eat during a call such as a phrase - «I feel» , try to talk - «I think» , because it can make your words more significance.